Okay so here is the update. My parents were supposed to come for Easter. It was my dad's idea-which never happens and was a miracle in and of itself. We had a list of all kinds of projects for he and Greg to work on together, we were going to go to arches for the first time since we have been married, my older brother was going to come too and we were going to have a family party for Allie's birthday. A bit over a week before this my dad had been diagnosed with cancer but we had yet to hear results of what kind and how serious. He had a lump in his mouth that he thought was from a tooth ache or a side effect of some nasal drops he was using. Well it turned out to be cancer but my parents said they would just wait until they got back to do any treatments or things that needed to be done. Then the week before they were to come they went to the doctor at which time they found out my dad had stage 3 B-cell lymphoma but the chemo couldn't start for over a week which still gave them time to come to Utah which the doctors said was fine. The next day they called and requested an emergency MRI and before that even took place the doctor called my mom to say that they would not be able to leave to come to Utah because my dad's cancer (now a stage 4) was advancing very rapidly and was approaching the fluid around his brain and he could have a seizure or something while they were traveling. He would have to be admitted to the hospital as soon as possible and have chemo begin. Talk about a blow. He hadn't even felt sick-just this dumb lump in his mouth. All of our plans were completely wiped out and I felt devastated. My brother still had his ticket to Salt Lake so we decided that I would just take the girls and meet him at the airport and he and I would drive home to Sask where I would stay for a while. Before any of that could happen I had Allie's birthday party/the basketball barbecue to host, bountiful baskets, the ward Easter Breakfast and a double baby shower to host at my house. Then I packed our bags and we left Monday afternoon to pick up my brother that night at the airport. Did I mention both girls were sick-ya they both got sick 3 days before leaving. We got my brother at the airport in the pouring rain, drove for about 4 hours into Idaho and slept at a rest stop in the car. This would have been a great plan if we had had blankets, no children traveling with us and it was in the middle of summer. We however froze our butts off as Steven and I tried the best we could to cover up with 3 recieving blankets and a airplane blanket. The girls were covered in their blankets. They had fallen asleep prior to us stopping and then when we did stop Allie said, "where are we going to sleep?" I said, "right here in the car." Luckily she was so tired she fell back asleep without a question. Thank heavens I am not homeless-how could you do that day in and out. Anyway bright and early the next morning we continued on and made it home to Sask at 12:30AM. We got to the border just minutes before it was about to close and the guard was super rude telling us how dare we get there right before they were about to close and that he may not let us across and that he was going to have to search our whole car because we were so late. I wanted to say, "excuse me sir, but have you traveled with a 3 and 18 month old lately? Do you know how many times you have to stop for potty breaks, running around breaks or when something just plain breaks? Do you know that even when you tell them to hurry there is no getting a 3 year old to move any faster than the pace she has determined she will go?" Luckily we were blessed with a tender mercy when I told him I was going to see my father who was just diagnosed with cancer in the hospital and I really didn't know how long I would stay, and the man let us across.
And thus began our 3 week stay in Canada. It was wonderful and heart breaking at the same time. My dad was in the hospital the entire time we were there. He did really well on his first 2 rounds of chemo but then they wouldn't let him leave because they didn't want to lose his bed so he had to stay until the 2nd and very intense round of chemo. At first he was okay but then his blood count dropped really low and the side effects began. His mouth was all chapped and bleeding and sore, he got sores all over his back, his legs were so swollen, he lost his hair and he looked very weak. Through it all he always said he was fine. I was just so worried that he might never get to leave the hospital. Luckily after we left he was able to go home. Between visiting him at the hospital the girls and I explored, we played with cousins Andrew and Jakob, we went shopping and to the Wild Child climbing place, Brailie mastered getting up and down stairs and learned a new word every few hours, the girls learned Andrew and Jakob's favorite game: empty out all the cupboards and drawers and through everything everywhere (luckily they have not tried this at home). The weather was fair but we were sad to leave our shorts behind in Utah. I was able to go to Brittany Racicots wedding in Cardston Alberta where I got to see Charelle and Tovah (my two best friends from growing up). That was so fantastic. My girls were sick for the whole trip-especially Allie who threw up the entire night we got there and most of the next day. My mom didn't get to go to the wedding or even leave because she watched the girls so I could attend the sealing and then the reception. Did I mention she is FANTASTIC!!!!We laughed that we drove 8 hours, paid $200.00 for a hotel room (a budget room at that-which we found out had nothing to do with the price-only the quality of the accommodations) so that my mom could wash vomit off of hotel blankets and Allie's clothes. What a disaster-but the wedding was wonderful. Anyway here are some of the picture highlights from the last month.
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| Playing in the snow. Since we only did that once in Green River this last winter the girls were pretty excited to find a few little patches of snow to play in and Allie was very disappointed when the sun melted them away. |
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| A deer shed Daniel found nearby |
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| Throwing rocks into the water. I think this game never gets old on the farm. |
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| Charelle, me and Tovah at Brittany's wedding. It was so good to see them. Love you gals. |
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| Brittany and Aaron. |
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| This was a super fun activity-driving around on Grammy's walker chair. |
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| Grammy found these amazing bubbles with spill reducing lids and the perfect bubble blower wand. Brailie loved these and had them pretty much in a death grip the whole time. I love her concentration in this picture. |
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| Notice the pictures with a million cartons and containers everywhere-this was the game of choice by these four. |
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| If I could have I would have brought this shopping cart home. I have never seen one like this. The car is built into the cart so you don't have to try and manuver a cart that is a mile long just so your kids will sit still. The girls loved this. |
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| This was at a place called Wild Child were they have all kinds of things to climb, jump in, slide down etc. The girls had a blast. |
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| We explored Uncle Daniels combine and the old tractor as well as the old chicken coop, and hauling trailer. The girls loved the combine the best. |
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| Jakob, Brailie, Andrew. |
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| This is called "taking care of business." (named by Allie) Grammy gave the girls new banks and man do they ever love the sound of money dropping into those. |
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| Can't get enough of her cuteness. |
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| Can't get enough of her sweetness. |
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| These were our after church pictures. |
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| The little white church is a church that stands on a cemetary on the way to Rabbit Lake. When ever people would come to our house, as part of the directions my dad would say, "if you get to the little white church you have gone too far." I took the girls to explore it. The door is always unlocked and the inside is so neat. Allie found a broom in the corner and immediately went to work sweeping. They loved the echo sound it made in there. Allie wanted to close the door and have us play in there; that sorta creeped me out so I convinced her to keep it open. |
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| These were on our way home from Cardston after the wedding. Allie was still really sick so she didn't want to do anything but Brailie enjoyed the little break from the car. |
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| More of my beautiful daughter. |
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| This beautiful one too. |
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| Here we were waiting for Daddy at the airport. Brailie was into me taking her picture but Allie was not. |
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| 4-wheeler rides. |
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| We sure do miss these little munchkins. I made them these shirts when then came to Utah to visit a little while back. |
